This is the BEST part of our personal revolution journey. We’ve gone through a process of healing and releasing. Doesn’t it just feel right? You just got a bunch of junk out of your spirit. It was taking up space and energy that you need to create a new reality for yourself. At this point, you’ve gained clarity about your beliefs, expectations, values, and priorities. You have a better understanding of what YOU want without the weight of expectations.Read More
In order to continue on the path of **Personal Revolution**, you must also release the expectations that have been unfairly placed upon you simply because of your Black Womanhood. Black Women literally birthed the world's population. Humanity started in our wombs. We have been programmed to carry the world's weight on our shoulders and its burdens in our spirits. We feel an inherent need to nurture, rear and protect all things.Read More
Let's get real -- real. You;re on the list because there is a need in your life. You are not 100% happy with your current state and you want to change. However, you have yet to figure out how.
The answer is simple. Embark on a PERSONAL REVOLUTION!
Notice that I said simple...not easy.
A personal revolution is usually triggered by reaching a point in your life when you can no longer do what you’ve been doing. The status quo is doing more harm than good. You thought that you had life figured out and suddenly, you understood NOTHING. There is that moment in your life when you know that you MUST change or you will never be fulfilled. It may have been facilitated by the loss of a loved one, leaving a job, a shitty relationship or even a personal realization that you are unfulfilled and have no idea where your life is going.Read More
Quick story. When my mom passed away I was dating someone. We had only been dating a few months, so it wasn’t anything I was doing flips over. Less than one week after burying my mom she asked me “ Why are you always so sad these days?” I responded that my mother had just died and… yeah… i was allowed to be sad. This woman said to me. “ Well, you’re just choosing to be sad by focusing your thoughts on the negative event. It's simple Law of Attraction.”
For the the past few weeks I've been chatting with a bunch of you about transformation. If we've spoken, you know that the very first thing that I ask of you is to tell me who you are. This seems like the easiest question ever, yet it's the one that women have the most difficulty with. I'm usually met with pregnant pauses and a bit of confusion.
Do look at your life and say “ This is not where I planned to be at this point.”? From the outside, things look great. You are other folk’s #goals. Girl, you got it goin’ on. But on the inside, you are dying. You have this nagging feeling that you should have done more by now.
I should already have THAT house.
I should already have THAT car.
I should have already made THAT million.
I should already be married to THAT person.
I should have already started that business.Read More
Yesterday I announced that enrollment is open for REVOLUTION: 360 INTENSIVE. Revolution 360: Intensive is my course + community for transformation focused Black Women who are are committed to going from #thestruggleisreal to #revolutionaryonpurpose. In Revolution 360: Intensive we take real action to leave behind live’s of struggand unfulfillment to create the life you want -ON PURPOSE.Read More
Sis, I’m so tired of watching Black Women talk about being sick and tired of being sick and tired. Aren’t you?
Maybe this is your narrative. Keep it 100! Are you tired of saying it, thinking it, feeling it?
Think about it...I’ll wait.Read More
We have been conditioned to take any shit that is thrown our way without our crowns even wobbling. Anyone can shit on a plate and call it love and we''re supposed eat it up and ask for seconds. FUCK THAT! That’s unfair and I’m done with that thinking.
Healing cannot take place if you’re surrounded by toxicity.Read More
My grandmother died two weeks ago. As I prepared for the funeral, I thought long and hard about whether we should even go. I, like most of you, have complex relationships with my family. While not getting into the nitty-gritty of our family dynamics, I’ll say I had mixed emotions. After lots of discussions with my sibs, (I’m the oldest of three), we decided to go. Our late mother’s mother is gone. We were obligated to go to represent her, right? Also, we were the only ones that knew what it felt like to lose a mother and wanted to be present and available for our aunts.
Fast Forward ----- Funeral morning.Read More
This is the biggie. **STRONG BLACK WOMAN SYNDROME**. It is the belief that Black women are immune to any perceived weakness and must remain STRONG AND UNBOTHERED at all times. Have you ever felt this?
It's become a phrase that has gone from empowering to thoroughly offensive. Moreso, it's problematic.Read More
Project Pat knew all the things in 2001 when he released **Don’t Save Her.** ( She don't wanna be saved.) You can’t save everyone. Everyone does not want to be saved. But here we are putting on our capes and swooping in to save folks. We like to call ourselves good people. We even don the title “empath”. But really we are captain save ‘ems that are only serving ourselves.Read More